My wife and I attend a small United Methodist Church in an outer suburb of Minneapolis. I have been a member of this church for almost 30 years, and my wife for 15. Currently, my wife is the worship director for our contemporary service, and I serve as "media director" along with singing with the praise band and singing in the choir.

The church we attend is a very close, intertwined group, with many of the families inter-marrying over the years. It is a very conservative...

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